Robbins is the Founder of, a positive news website and author of “Stop Saying You’re Fine,” about managing change. She speaks on leadership around the world and in 2014 was named Outstanding News Talk Radio secret info Host by the Gracie Awards. Follow her on Twitter @melrobbins . The opinions expressed in this commentary are solely those of Mel Robbins. (CNN) — Here we are — yet again. Barely a year passed since the massacre in Newtown, Connecticut , and a young man with a history of chronic anger and mental illness just killed six people and injured 13 others. In the YouTube videos and 137-page depraved diatribe he left behind, mass murderer Elliot Rodger made one thing very clear: His miserable life was everyone else’s fault and he planned to make innocent people pay.